*now playing: 蔡旻佑-小乖乖*
Colourful Me
[+]NaMe:jasmine chia[+]
[+]D.O.B:23 MarCh[+]
[+]hOroScOpE:aRie3[+]
[+]eMaiL:dearjasmine85@hotmail.com[+]
[+]straIghtfoRward[+]
[+]stUbborn[+]
[+]cheerfuL[+]
[+]bLur[+]
[+]only for mi[+]
~ Loves ~
[+]LOVE freeDom[+]
[+]rOam tHe worLd[+]
[+]LOVE waTching staRs[+]
[+]wiNne tHe pooH[+]
[+]siNging[+]
[+]haViNg a simpLe & sWeet liFe[+]
i love all the colours in the RAINBOW!
do you?
Grant My Wishes
*tiffany & co ring*
*tiffany & co bracelet*
*tiffany & co watch*
*countless money in my pocket*
*good health for everyone esp mommy*
*be happy*
*to run away from this cruel world*
*a medicine tat erase my sad memories*
*new clothing and shoes*
*new room deco*
*hello kitty high 5 system*
*a trip to US disney land*
*TF Trofish watch*
*bloggies*
ash - claire - ash - eveline
gerlyn - geradine - huixian - huixin
iris - lixin - louis - michelle -
peiwen - peiling - jesamine - jiejin
joelle - justin - sabby - sharon
xiaohui
* idols bloggies*
方力申 - 方中信 - 连凯 - 古巨基
刘恺威 - 古天乐 - 甄子丹 - 孙耀威
方文山 - 贺军翔 - 王力宏 - 王仁甫
小鬼 - 小猪 - 杨丞琳 - 五月天阿信
张栋梁 - 彈頭 - 林智文 - 修杰楷
吴尊 - 炎亞綸 - 汪東城 - 辰亦儒
四十 - 懷秋 - 愛紗 - 大嘴巴-宗華
唐禹哲 - 蘇打綠-青峯 - 楊一展 - 謝承均
周定偉 - 許仁杰 劉明峰 - 楊宗緯 -
鄭元暢 - 胡宇崴 - 安以軒 -
林俊杰 - 林宇中 -
丁志勇 - 周崇庆 - 家发 - 佩芬
许振荣 - 蔡淳佳 - - zijie
*links*
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fanfiction - golden village -
jigsaw puzzle
tiffany & co - rain - webtunes - yes933
Colourful Past
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Wednesday, August 17, 2005
Is LoVe a cHance or cHoice??
When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen.
"I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not to find someone perfect to love...
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly!
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